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Can we talk about…
Can we talk about discounts in health care?
One of the hot topics of conversation amongst my peers is discounts. Specifically daily deals type sites. I use them myself. For ziplining adventures or trying a new restaurant. I’ve never used them for healthcare. That is what therapeutic massage is to me-healthcare.
These platforms didn’t exist when I started this work in 2001, so I’ve watched them spring up and grow exponentially in my field over the last several years. I’ve heard some stories! In listening to peers lament their participation in these discount programs and all of the problems therein, I’ve learned a few things.
- They aren’t all bad. Really. I’ve observed that loads of people who may not have otherwise had access to massage therapy are now able to experience our work. That’s great, right? Unfortunately many of these folks, only have the desire to pay such deeply discounted rates and jump from therapist to therapist. This means they never develop a relationship or have the opportunity to build a rapport with anyone. The real beauty in therapeutic massage is that, as part of a team, manual therapists can effect great change for people in pain. That takes time.
- Therapists get impatient. Often licensed massage therapists are pressured to make money quickly without any clear vision of what they would like their professional legacy to be or what problems they want to help solve for people. The pressure is immense and often participating in discount programs by cutting rates drastically allows for a full schedule super fast. Sounds great right?
- That brings us to my last observation: busy people who work for less than they are worth become resentful people who are just going through the motions to fulfill obligations while destroying their bodies. This is probably the hardest thing for me. I want my peers to succeed. I want people to find as much pleasure and usefulness in their profession as they can.
Massage is an act of service, a privilege for both giver and receiver. It’s really, really good. It’s useful. And at its pinnacle it should be kindness embodied, no matter the goal of each session. Any practice or policy that strains the therapists ability to deliver that should be questioned.
So, as for me and my practice…If I offer a discount (and that is a rare occurrence, indeed) it’s to celebrate, or to practice charitable giving for an organization that I support and it’s a great deal! The reasons for me to share my effort and knowledge with others for less than what I customarily charge are rational and it makes me exceedingly happy to do so. If a request or idea to discount isn’t logical or charitable, I’m probably not hopping on board.
How Massage Fixed my Headaches
How I Ended Up Here (Part1)
I’m not the most graceful human being. Not by a long shot.
In fact the only time that I’m centered, calm and coordinated is during your massage. Add to this that I grew up with brothers who thought putting me in suitcase and throwing sliding me down the stairs, or using our backyard hammock as slingshot with me as the human ammunition led to some interesting landings.
By the time I was in my late teens I was suffering almost daily with neck pain and headaches. Relief was elusive and a chiropractor I was working with shortly after a face plant gave me a corker of a whiplash injury (that’s a good story, another day, though)suggested that I see the massage therapist who he’d recently hired to ‘supplement’ his work.
One session and I was a believer!
For years I’d been searching for relief and it finally came in the form of therapeutic massage. A few years later I was studying for my license to become a therapist. I love working with folks living who are in pain. I know you. Heck, I AM you.
Loads of continuing study in pain science, kinesiology and super fancy therapy modalities later, every time someone knew comes into see me for an initial assessment, I think of my first experience with massage. It continues to shape how I cultivate compassion for those living with chronic pain and drives me to learn everyday.
Close to My Heart :Chronic Pain and TED talks
Tonight I’m throwing it back to this amazing 2011 lecture on chronic pain given by Dr. Elliot Krane of Stanford University. I found his talk around the time I was first starting this blog, back in 2012, and it really inspired me to try to tell my own story with complex pain problems. Dr. Krane is […]
via The best TED talk ever: Elliot Krane on the Mystery of Chronic pain — Sunlight in Winter
Procrastination
What is procrastination and why can you not seem to stop doing it?
via The Science Behind Procrastination And What You Can Do To Overcome It — Dalindcy
Massage and Mental Health
Depersonalization and Dissociation are two coping mechanisms provided by the brain during abuse. This happens often with and/or as a result of sexual abuse. Since our “issues” or memories are stored in our tissues, experiencing abuse can cause us to retreat from physical touch by another person. In fact, even a pat on the back […]
via How Does Massage Therapy Help with PTSD, Abuse, and Trauma? — Hollis Holistic Healing
2017 Thank You and Cheers to 16 years of massage!
“When 900 years old you reach, look as good you will not.” -Yoda
I joke with my colleagues. ” I’ve been doing this so long, my first business cards were stone tablets!”
Not completely accurate, but close. I love that the internet and social media allow me connect with you even when you aren’t on my table. The learning curve is steep to be sure, but I’m enjoying the challenge of stretching myself to try things I never have before. Don’t get me wrong, I’d love to delegate all of this online marketing stuff to a really smart 12 year old and spend my time and money on getting certified in Ashiatsu or Thai Massage in Thailand! Alas, here we are. And that’s where you come in…
If I’ve been able to help you resolve or manage chronic pain, provided you comfort via safe touch, or been a small piece in your journey of self care and better health, I’d like to ask you to tell others.
If you could, take a few moments and leave a review on Google, Facebook or Massagebook, so that others can find me and I can help them also, I would be so grateful!
Thank you for rolling with me through the move, crazy big growth and all of the great support you’ve shown this past year. Here’s to YOU and an amazing 2017!

-Heather
Movin’ on Up!
I come from a long line of small business owners, so I’m no stranger to the challenges involved. It’s all worth it, of course because I have the freedom to provide my clients with what they need with no arbitrary or self-limiting rules.
I don’t charge more for ‘deep-tissue’ massage or extra tools like hydrotherapy or essential oils. I’d rather have Google business reviews than gratuities. I want my clients to get exactly what they need from each session. Having a practice of my own allows those freedoms and many more.
All that build up for this:
After loads of searching, I have found a lovely space to share with fellow therapist in this amazing location in downtown Oakwood!! It is so convenient and quiet, and I am just thrilled.
I cannot wait to start seeing clients in this comfortable space and I’m sure this growth will allow me to provide all of you with even more awesome! Book an appointment soon to see what all of the fuss is about!
Why does she always ask me that?
If we’ve had more than one session you made have noticed that I start most pre-session interviews with the same question.
‘What is your goal for today?’
Sound familiar? There are several reasons why I do this. But first, I’ll share what naturally occurs to some clients:
A. I forgot everything we did before. 
This patently untrue. Not only do I keep copious charts, I actually care about your needs, your history, and your desired outcomes.
Here are a few reasons why I DO ask this question in almost every session.
1. We change. We fall off ladders painting our bedroom. We his our heads on open cabinet doors whilst unloading the dishwasher. We go through emotional trauma. We lose jobs, end marriages and decide to start Couch to 5k programs.
Each of this changes are carried around with us. Our needs in the Therapeutic environment change from week to week and I truly want you to get the most out of our time.

B.I’m also very goal oriented in my work. I feel like our effort is best served by working together to achieve a common goal. In order to do that, we need to adjust occasionally.
In almost 16years, I’ve never given the same massage twice and I don’t intend to. You deserve all my effort, passion for learning, and creativity each time you are in my table. So please pardon the fact that I start with the same question every time, and I’ll continue to keep helping you meet your needs.
It is my priveledge.



